Purchase Helping Gay Men Find Love: Tips for Guys on Dating and Beginning a Healthy 
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​The stigma of gay relationships is waning, and more and more couples feel free to “come out,” marry, and start families. But a dire situation still exists within the gay community—one that is rarely acknowledged or discussed and leaves men frustrated, depressed, and alone.
 
The problem? It’s far more difficult for homosexual men to enter into—and remain in—healthy relationships than their heterosexual counterparts. There are a number of reasons for this, among them:

• The pool of available prospects is much smaller for gay men than it is for heterosexual individuals
• Discerning who is available in professional and social situations is not as easy or obvious as it is for heterosexuals
• And most important: Growing up as a sexual minority leads to childhood-developmental issues, insecurities, and low self-esteem that make it tough to partner in a healthy way

 
My new book, Helping Gay Men Find Love: Tips for Guys on Dating and Beginning a Healthy Relationship, is the first of its kind to address these obstacles and give the gay community a fairer chance of experiencing what is vital to all human beings: love and companionship.
 
Written in a friendly, approachable, non-“psychobabble” way, Helping Gay Men Find Love begins with self-exploration—helping you work through the common self-esteem and poor-decision-making issues that plague gay men. This initial work is critical preparation for the practical steps that follow: Finding the right guy, knowing he’s the right guy, and keeping him.
 
Topics include:

• Building self-esteem
• Learning what you truly want from a guy
• Figuring out how and where to meet your match
• The first and second dates
• How to have great sex
• Meeting his friends and parents
• Moving in together
• Pets and kids
• Marriage